River Gathering and Unlikely Journeys

I was somewhere near a river, there were people I know there having fun, it was almost like a party or gathering. there was lobsters that someone caught in this little freezer, someone asked me to get them out and when I pulled one of them out it started running, I helped it get back it the water, if he survived the freezer he waseant to live was my thought. One of the persons in my dream was someone in my real life who passed away a few years ago, he was looking for my mom, who passed 8 months ago, I told him she was "here somewhere". There was so much laughter and joy everywhere and then what seemed to be another dream but I think it linked my husband talked me into going to military training in Iran, I was 63 and he wanted me to go, he gave me a vest that said "veteran" on the back and he was bragging to people about my vest, it felt he was being prideful. There was another man in my dream that was being so kind to me, it seemed to take weight off of my shoulders
Your dream is rich with various symbols and emotional undertones that might reflect upon your waking life experiences, emotions, and thoughts. Here's a detailed interpretation:
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The River and Gathering:
- Being near a river may symbolize the flow of life, emotions, and the passage of time. Rivers are often seen as nurturing and life-giving, which aligns with the sense of joy and celebration depicted in the gathering.
- The presence of familiar people, including someone who has passed away, might signify your desire for connection and possibly processing of past relationships and memories. The laughter and joy could indicate a longing for happy times and reconnection with loved ones who have passed.
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The Lobsters:
- Lobsters are generally seen as symbols of emotional growth and transformation. Your action of helping the lobster back to the water could symbolize a nurturing side of you, trying to ensure life or transformation is allowed to continue. It could represent an idea of letting things go or allowing things to take their natural course.
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Deceased People:
- The figures of your mother and another deceased loved one appearing in your dream may reflect an aspect of mourning or reconciliation with loss. It may also be a part of processing grief or the presence they still hold in your life. Telling the person that your mother was "here somewhere" could symbolize your belief that they are still watching over or close to you spiritually.
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Military Training and the Vest:
- The idea of military training in Iran may symbolize a situation that requires discipline, courage, or entering unknown territories in your life. It might also relate to aspects of feeling challenged or getting out of your comfort zone.
- The vest labeled "veteran" and your husband's pride might relate to some form of achievement or the recognition of experience and resilience you possess in real life. It could indicate a sense of pride or dignity in what you have endured or accomplished.
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Kind Man:
- The presence of a kind man taking weight off your shoulders could represent support and kindness you either need or have received in waking life. This could symbolize an element of healing or a comforting influence that assists you in dealing with stress.
Overall, this dream weaves together themes of memory, connection, support, resilience, and the passage of life. It suggests a journey through emotions, perhaps touching on your reflections on life, relationships, achievements, and recovery from loss or hardship. It might be encouraging you to embrace love and support around you while acknowledging the growth and learning that comes with life's challenges.